Also, before I forget:

Ideas for not-too-tall plants to replace massive bee balm of doom and fill in other middle-to-front-of-bed space
* speedwell
* artemisias of various stripes
* sedum (something with nice fall colour, for preference, although that frosty morn stuff looks pretty good out front)
* perennial salvia
* lavender
* euphorbia

To get in the market one of these days
* massive foxgloves of doom (do they have a different kind than me or something? They're twice as tall as mine!!)
* penstemon (been eyeing it forever)